for families facing terminal illness
Memory Book

Memory Book

Welcome to ellenor’s Online Book.

For many years we have read your kind words, and listened to your stories. You’ve asked us for a special place to commemorate your loved ones, so we created this book especially for you. We wanted to give you a place to come and remember all those who are so dearly missed. A book to share your precious moments with friends and families. A means to celebrate the lives of those we love and cherish, always.

Most importantly, this book is your book, and we warmly invite you to add your story.


You can find guidance in the chapter ‘About This Book’ for setting up your page. You will need to register as a user before you create your tribute page; this is a quick and easy process. For further help, contact
The book has a search bar which in which you can enter the name of your loved one. Simply select their name from the list of tributes to be taken through to their dedicated page.
If you are looking to add your message, you will be asked to register or log in. Here you can leave a short message of 140 characters, or post your own longer memory (up to 10,000 characters) and even upload pictures or video.
There is a link on the tribute page to Send to a Friend which will create an email message for you, you can then add your email addresses in. There are also buttons to share a link to your page on social media websites like Facebook and Twitter.
If you are the page owner, you will receive instant email notifications when someone successfully leaves a message. This message will also appear in the email body so you can either read it at a glance, or follow the link to see it on your page.
There’s an upload button on the form to add your longer memory. Here you can even add a link to a YouTube video.
Yes - you can adjust these settings when you create the page. You can still share your page with friends and family, except it will be password protected. We really do love to read your stories if you are happy to leave them public.
Absolutely nothing – it is completely free to register, create your page, share and add memories.
Yes – there is a Please Donate option that takes the user through to our Virgin Money Giving donations page. We encourage users to leave their messages on your tribute page however, as messages left on Virgin Money Giving will not appear in the book.
Your page will exist permanently in our book, unless you choose to remove the tribute yourself. You can set up reminder dates for anniversaries if you would like to come back and leave messages on special dates, if you’d like.
ellenor has members of staff that are administrators of the book – they are notified of new registrations and pages within the book and monitor this regularly. Should you see anything of concern please contact or call 01474 32007
There is a function on the Log In page to send a reset link to the email address you registered with. This might take a few minutes to come through so do give it a little time and remember to check you junk mail. We can also over-ride your password and send a replacement to you if you are having difficulty, you can then amend it once you have logged in.
No – Lights of Love is an annual series of remembrance events where dedications are made with a donation. The Memory Book is a special way to celebrate loved ones by sharing memories and leaving messages.
Of course – we welcome your tributes. Many tributes and donations are left for individuals of all ages who have supported ellenor in different ways.
We recommend creating individual pages to make it easier for friends and relatives to find tributes.

We are happy to assist you if you have any questions about creating or managing your pages.